WHO AM I

On the amorous plane, you have enough to make the beloved one happy, for you are sensitive, full of gentleness and romantic imagination. But you are also liable to changes of humor, to whims, and above all too dependent on external circumstances, therefore rather disconcerting for those who share your life.

To tell the truth, your comportment will have been conditioned by the kind of relation which you have, or have had, with your family and particularly with your mother. If this relation is or was satisfying, it is easier for you to live a harmonious love life. But if the situation has been otherwise, you may remain someone quite slippery, always on the lookout for the kind of happiness which only exists in your wild imagination.

In order to be happy in love, you must make a clear distinction between, on one hand, your need for tenderness and gentleness, your refusal of conflicts, your fear of violence, and, on the other hand, your excessive tendency to self-pity and dependence.

But if a climate of stability and complicity is not established in your love life, you may become very demanding, very monopolizing toward your mate. You may excel in showing yourself more and more disagreeable because of your gloomy state and long sulks, with the result that your mate may be so discouraged as to seek rupture. If it's possible, you may choose to take some distance by finding pretexts for traveling, without putting an end to your union. A rupture is always for you an ordeal, even a wound, and can prove extremely hard to endure when the separation is imposed on you by your mate.

Single life hardly pleases you. Indeed, with your vital need for emotional security and with all your reserves of love and tenderness that you only ask to give out, you feel extremely unfortunate when you are lonely. You then tend to shrink within yourself and to lock yourself up in your melancholia.